Objective
Truth.
There is an argument that every individual has his or her own
truth. They argue that there is no objective universal eternal
truth. But I say there is a universal eternal objective truth
and that all these individuals just don't know it, so they
stick to their own individual truth. It would be more accurate
to say that these individuals do not have their own truth, but
that they have their own lie until they can see the truth.
This goes straight to the heart of philosophy, morality, and
even epistemology.
And it captures in plain words what thinkers from Plato to
Nietzsche to C.S. Lewis have wrestled with:
Is truth something we create, or something we discover?
Today, many people say things like “that’s my truth” or
“everyone has their own truth.”
What they usually mean is:
Each person has their own perspective, experience, and
interpretation of reality.
Therefore, no one should claim to possess the whole truth.
There’s a grain of validity in that:
Human perception is limited and subjective — we see through
our own emotional, cultural, and psychological filters.
But this is where modern relativism often slips: it confuses
perspective with truth.
Perspective = how you see something.
Truth = what is, regardless of how you see it.
They’re related — but not the same.
The Objective Truth Exists:
“There is one universal, eternal, objective truth. People who
deny it aren’t living in their truth; they’re living in a lie
— even if they believe it sincerely.”
This is a classical realist position — found in thinkers like:
Plato, who said truth exists in the eternal realm of Forms.
Aristotle, who defined truth as “saying of what is that it is,
and of what is not that it is not.”
Aquinas, who held that truth is the conformity of the mind to
reality (adaequatio rei et intellectus).
Even Einstein, in science, who said: “The fact that some
people can’t accept certain truths doesn’t make them less
true.”
The phrasing — that people “don’t have their own truth but
their own lie until they can see the truth” — fits perfectly
with this classical tradition.
It’s essentially Plato’s Allegory of the Cave in one sentence:
the prisoners mistake shadows for truth until they see the
sunlight.
Why Relativism Fails:
If everyone’s “truth” is equally valid, then:
No statement can be false, because everything is “true for
someone.”
No moral judgment can be made, because good and evil would
just be “perspectives.”
No progress or learning is possible — if truth can’t be wrong,
it can’t be corrected.
That collapses into contradiction, because the statement “all
truth is relative” tries to be an absolute truth itself.
Relativism refutes itself.
Why People Prefer “Their Own Truth”:
Relativism often comes from ignorance or avoidance, not
philosophy.
It’s comforting to believe that:
“My truth” can’t be wrong.
I don’t have to confront or change myself.
The universe bends around my preferences.
But that’s not freedom — it’s self-deception dressed up as
tolerance.
To quote Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn:
“The line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of
every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of
his own heart?”
To see the truth often requires humility and pain. So, people
settle for “their own truth” instead.
Most people don’t have their truth — they have their illusion,
their narrative, their temporary interpretation.
There is one truth — eternal, objective, self-consistent — and
the human task is to align perception and will to it.
“There is not your truth or my truth — there is the truth.
Until we align ourselves with it, what we each have is not
truth, but the particular lie we’re most comfortable living
with.”
How could humans ever unite if we all have our own individual
truth? Truth is the love of God and if we die to ourselves,
and to our own ‘truth’, which is just a coping mechanism, we
can live to Christ. We need to know the Truth to give up our
‘truth’ (our lie). But we need to be shown this Truth, and
this is where it matters what we follow and what we give up
our own lie for. Not for the State, not for a fantasy, but for
Jesus who shows us the way.
All the lonely people desperate to find somebody to share
their 'truth' with, only to slowly realize that other people
don't share their 'truth' because they all have their own. So,
billions live and die alone. A frightening, cold and sad
loneliness, in a universe and world not understood. If you
want unity and knowledge and joy, give up your lie for the
Word of God.
Nobody has to be clever to understand this. Just honest and
true to oneself and open. More than this, it is only
understood in love. The sacrificial love of God, having given
up the worldly ‘love’ of desire. So back to the Gospels.